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Dear Writer: Advice on conducting a great interview

On learning to listen, from Alicia Kennedy of From the Desk of Alicia Kennedy Podcast.

We asked Alicia Kennedy to share her advice on interviewing. She calls From the Desk of Alicia Kennedy Podcast, her weekly podcast that’s part of her food newsletter, “a curated conversation series.” She recently wrote about her belief in unscripted, unedited interviews here. Read on for her advice, or listen to her read it aloud above.

Dear writer and podcaster, what’s the secret to a good interview? 

My podcast always begins with the same question: “Can you tell me about where you grew up and what you ate?” This establishes the conversation in some straightforward biography, while also grounding it in the flavors and food philosophies that have shaped the guest’s life. From there, the audience and I will get to go deeper, but the guest sets the terms of the conversation by choosing what and how much to share. Do they become wistful and nostalgic, or do these memories seem painful? Are they tinged by grief and loss, or by joy and whimsy? The question sets the tone and tenor of the rest of the conversation.   

To me, a good interview is governed by the same thing as good nonfiction writing: curiosity. I’ve made mistakes before by doing interviews with people whose work I, frankly, was not curious about, and that means I’m just going through the motions. But what makes an interview good for the audience—whether a listener or reader—is that the people having the conversation are actively engaged with each other, and ideally with each other’s work. As an interviewer, I want the people listening to feel like they’re overhearing a natural conversation, something that would happen spontaneously after the plates are cleared away from the dinner table and all that’s left is some wine and cake.

There also needs to be a spirit of generosity on the part of the person being interviewed. When people come on who’ve never bothered to listen to a past episode and don’t respond generously to good-faith questions, it can feel like pulling teeth. I’ve learned for myself, whether I’m the host or the guest, that I shouldn’t show up unless I can get locked into having a generous conversation. This means being curious and being engaged, of course, but also believing that every question is a good question, a worthwhile question, and if I think perhaps it hasn’t been phrased well, that I can reframe it in my response. 

I want the people listening to feel like they’re overhearing a natural conversation, something that would happen spontaneously after the plates are cleared away from the dinner table and all that’s left is some wine and cake.

In order to facilitate better conversations, I send my guests the questions a week ahead of time. This provides not too much time to overprepare and thus kill spontaneity, but it does allow them to get a sense of the trajectory of the conversation and tell me whether they’d prefer to go in another direction. I want guests to be comfortable and know that it will be a safe space for anything they wish to talk about, and I like to establish their boundaries ahead of time. 

I try to ask big, open questions, too, so that the guest feels free to take their response in any direction. Specific questions, I’ve found, lend themselves too easily to simple answers. The worst feeling is to receive a “yes” or “no” in response. Though sometimes one can want to flex just how deep they’ve researched in their questions, I find it better to be looser and to let the guest guide the conversation a bit, because their spontaneity will also be more compelling to the listener. 

In writing these bigger, more open questions, I dive into all the person’s work and also try to listen to or read past interviews. I want to honor the subjects that drive the guest’s life while also bringing something different to it, something less anticipated. My questions that I ask to everyone are very important for this reason, such as in how I begin, but also in how I finish, which is with the same two questions. Each guest responds to the same questions in new ways.

I want to honor the subjects that drive the guest’s life while also bringing something different to it, something less anticipated.

I used to ask just, “For you, is cooking a political act?” but I change it up based on whether the guest has told me they like to cook or not. If they don’t, I ask about writing or bartending or whatever it is they put all their soul into. I’ve begun to add the question “How do you define abundance?” because the concept of “abundance” keeps working its way into my own writing—how we define it, yes, as well as how to cultivate it and how to reframe it in a world that tries to tell us abundance looks one way, means one thing.

My podcast is, in this way, an extension of my writing, a way to engage with its themes with folks who’ve done different kinds of work in food and culture, who can bring new perspectives to themes I work with consistently. We all eat and engage with food differently, and I want to honor that diversity through generous, curious conversation.

Sincerely,

Alicia

Alicia Kennedy

This is the fourth in a recurring series of longform writer advice, following Embedded’s Kate Lindsay’s advice on creating trust with your readers, Lance’s Anna Codrea-Rado’s advice on learning to celebrate just how far you’ve come, and Mason Currey’s advice on creative growth.

Could you use some advice or inspiration from a fellow writer about creativity, motivation, and the writing life? Submit your question for consideration for a future advice column by leaving it in the comments below.

Discussion about this episode

Thank you Alicia! To ask open questions is a huge one, it’s a good tool to get the conversation going.

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Love your advice on curiosity!

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Thank you, Alicia!!

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Love this article, very insightful, thank you!

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Very helpful. Thanks. it’s a good tool to get the conversation going. https://duck-life.io/

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Its a very informative tutorial. I am writer and proof reader at printerloop.com . It is very beneficial for employer to conduct a best interview. Thanks for this worth sharing words.

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Great advice, Alicia! Thank you for sharing. I love the part about the guest having a spirit of generosity. That has reaffirmed my decision to not interview a guest I had asked, who kept procrastinating on doing the interview, even though I gave them many opportunities to back out. Instead, they just kept postponing it until, I said, maybe we should leave it this time? They had no real interest in it as you said and hadn't even listened to a previous one. I'm so glad I listen to this today!

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Great advice, Alicia. A good conversation is so important. I listened to a Twiggy podcast with Ronnie Woods and she was so good at the art of conversation, There is another podcast I listen to and the guy has good guests, but he answers his own questions and they can hardly ever get a word in edgeways. He also alternates Um and You Know into just about every sentence. I persevere most of the time because the info is great, but I cringe all the way through :D

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Thank you Alicia! This is fabulous advice and ones that will be taken to heart as I gear up for my first interview. I feel better prepared!

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Well said!

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Fantastic tips on getting the interview started. I love that question.

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Liked your conducting a great interview a lot. Some heralded food newsletter writers are praised for including non-food subjects in their publications. Food is, afterall, a reflection of and part of culture, values, personal lives, and philosophy. What do you think about that?

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1 question, do you have a substack newsletter and a podcast separately? or are the podcast and the substack the same thing?

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Together!

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